car: common function for delayed factory cruise canceling

[sunnyhaibin]

May resolve #1173, testing pending.

• consolidate down to 1-liner within carcontroller

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Car behavior report

Replays driving segments through this PR and compares the behavior to master.
Please review any changes carefully to ensure they are expected.

Testing 470 segments for: GMC_ACADIA, GMC_YUKON, HYUNDAI_AZERA_HEV_6TH_GEN, HYUNDAI_ELANTRA_GT_I30, HYUNDAI_ELANTRA_2021, HYUNDAI_ELANTRA_HEV_2021, HYUNDAI_GENESIS, HYUNDAI_IONIQ, HYUNDAI_IONIQ_HEV_2022, HYUNDAI_IONIQ_EV_2020, HYUNDAI_IONIQ_PHEV_2019, HYUNDAI_IONIQ_PHEV, HYUNDAI_KONA_2022, HYUNDAI_KONA_EV, HYUNDAI_KONA_EV_2022, HYUNDAI_KONA_EV_2ND_GEN, HYUNDAI_SANTA_FE, HYUNDAI_SANTA_FE_2022, HYUNDAI_SANTA_FE_HEV_2022, HYUNDAI_SANTA_FE_PHEV_2022, HYUNDAI_SONATA, HYUNDAI_SONATA_LF, HYUNDAI_STARIA_4TH_GEN, HYUNDAI_PALISADE, HYUNDAI_SONATA_HYBRID, HYUNDAI_IONIQ_5, HYUNDAI_IONIQ_6, HYUNDAI_TUCSON_4TH_GEN, HYUNDAI_SANTA_CRUZ_1ST_GEN, HYUNDAI_CUSTIN_1ST_GEN, TOYOTA_ALPHARD_TSS2, TOYOTA_AVALON, TOYOTA_AVALON_2019, TOYOTA_AVALON_TSS2, TOYOTA_CAMRY, TOYOTA_CAMRY_TSS2, TOYOTA_CHR, TOYOTA_CHR_TSS2, TOYOTA_COROLLA, TOYOTA_COROLLA_TSS2, TOYOTA_HIGHLANDER, TOYOTA_HIGHLANDER_TSS2, TOYOTA_PRIUS, TOYOTA_PRIUS_V, TOYOTA_PRIUS_TSS2, TOYOTA_RAV4, TOYOTA_RAV4H, TOYOTA_RAV4_TSS2, TOYOTA_RAV4_TSS2_2022, TOYOTA_RAV4_TSS2_2023, TOYOTA_RAV4_PRIME, TOYOTA_YARIS, TOYOTA_MIRAI, TOYOTA_SIENNA, TOYOTA_SIENNA_4TH_GEN

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