chore(sec): bump deps + drop Python 3.9 to clear all OSV findings (5.0.0) #3031

Job	Run time
check-types (3.14)	16m 35s
Unit Tests + Kernel (Python 3.14)	19m 3s
Unit Tests + Kernel (Python 3.13)	4m 15s
check-types (3.12)	1m 48s
Unit Tests + Kernel (Python 3.12)	4m 0s
check-types (3.13)	2m 27s
check-types (3.11)	1m 28s
Unit Tests + Kernel (Python 3.11)	4m 24s
Unit Tests + Kernel (Python 3.10)	4m 3s
Unit Tests + PyArrow (Python 3.11, min deps)	4m 36s
check-types (3.10)	1m 49s
Unit Tests (Python 3.13, default deps)	3m 19s
Unit Tests + PyArrow (Python 3.10, default deps)	4m 11s
check-linting (3.10)	2m 11s
check-linting (3.13)	1m 25s
Unit Tests + PyArrow (Python 3.11, default deps)	4m 23s
check-linting (3.12)	1m 38s
Unit Tests (Python 3.11, min deps)	3m 35s
Unit Tests (Python 3.10, default deps)	3m 24s
Unit Tests (Python 3.14, min deps)	18m 47s
Unit Tests (Python 3.12, default deps)	3m 25s
Unit Tests + PyArrow (Python 3.14, min deps)	18m 55s
Unit Tests + PyArrow (Python 3.13, default deps)	3m 57s
Unit Tests (Python 3.14, default deps)	18m 11s
Unit Tests (Python 3.11, default deps)	3m 9s
Unit Tests + PyArrow (Python 3.10, min deps)	4m 24s
Unit Tests (Python 3.10, min deps)	3m 35s
Unit Tests + PyArrow (Python 3.12, default deps)	3m 57s
check-linting (3.14)	16m 7s
Unit Tests + PyArrow (Python 3.14, default deps)	19m 7s
check-linting (3.11)	2m 5s
	3h 24m 13s

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